7 Reasons Money Loves You Just the Way You Are

Did you know that money really does want to love and support you? Well, it does.

Every single one of us has a relationship with money. This relationship is one of the most valuable relationships you can have in your life, second only to the relationship you have with yourself.

You can do everything in your relationship with money that you do with your spouse/significant other/child. The most important thing you can do is to tell money how you feel every single day.

It is true that money is energy and a made up form of valuation so that we can put a value on the physical items we have in our lives. But money also carries a masculine energy and wants to be the love and support that you need in your life too.

Money wants to be the best relationship you have in your life. But as a part of who we are as humans, this relationship is usually an on-again, off-again relationship. It is very strained and nothing comes easily in this relationship.


Like everything else in life, this relationship takes work. You have to let money know how it can support you better. And more importantly, you have to let it into your life.

It doesn’t matter how you feel about money right now. It is very possible that you have a love-hate relationship with money because of the way it does show up in your life. Write a love (or hate) letter to money and let it know!

But I want to reassure you that money really does love you just the way you are right now. Below are 7 ways that money loves you just the way you are.

1. Your appearance doesn’t matter one bit. Money has an unconditional love for you, just like your pets and children.

2. Even when you talk bad and say you hate money, it still loves you and wants to be there for you. But you are the one pushing it away.

3. The state of your current bank account doesn’t matter. The love money has for you never depends on what you have or don’t have. The only person who sees this as a limit is you.

4. You never need to impress money with physical belongings, gifts or even how you dress. You never have to dress to impress. But seriously, the only person you ever have to work to impress is yourself. Everyone else will just see you as you and usually prefers less makeup and you being just the way you are.
5. You don’t need to a be sweet talker, make up false truths or do things you don’t like for money. Just be you anyway. Stop trying to impress others who will only find out later when you can no longer keep up the false facade.
6. The car you drive, the home you live in, even the clothes on your back make you who you are. Money seriously doesn’t care. Treasure this relationship that you have with money and nurture it with all that you have.

7. Money will never hate you, no matter how you treat it. Just like your pets and children, money has an unconditional love for you and never wants to see you go.

Just the way you are right here, right now, reading this is exactly how money loves you. The tears you cry, the anger you feel, the love you feel, money doesn’t care.

Money has an unconditional love for you and the only way it will change is to grow stronger. It will never grow weaker. You are supported by money, you just have to allow it and learn to let this relationship in and to develop.

You are not alone in struggling with this relationship. More than 90% of the population on this planet struggles with this relationship. But you have to learn the basics and just go from there. You can’t develop this relationship from scratch in just a day. Just like any other relationship in your life, it takes a lot of work. But I know you can do it.

I’d love to know your thoughts on your own relationship with money. Let’s chat below in the comments.

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Clarissa 142Clarissa is a money mindset coach and online business bookkeeper. There isn’t a day that goes by that she doesn’t love what she does to help amazing women (and men!) just like you every single day. Clarissa has been through one heck of journey already in this lifetime and learned many life lessons, but also developed a very well stocked toolbox to help people tackle their money woes head on.
She has 3 college degrees and is an accountant as well. She has two furbabies – Sparky and Chubbs, who really act like children and keep her on her toes every single day. Follow her on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram to keep in touch. 

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